Hairless vaginas are often seen as fashionable, thanks to massive advertising behind hair removal products. Many women feel pressured to shave, even when they don’t want to. The result? A lot of women believe they have no real choice when it comes to pubic hair.
The truth is, your body, your choice. Whether or not to remove the hair around your vulva should be a personal decision based on what makes you comfortable.
But this raises a common question: is it better to keep the hair, trim it, or go completely hairless? What are the pros and cons of each, and how can you avoid the discomfort that sometimes comes with shaving?
Today, we’re going to dive a little deeper into this topic. Why do so many women feel self-conscious about keeping pubic hair in the first place?
What Makes Women Choose Hair or No Hair Down There?
You can enjoy excellent vaginal health regardless of your grooming choice. Studies show that whether you keep your pubic hair or not should be based on your preference.
So why do many women feel that keeping pubic hair is unattractive?
Why Some Women Think Keeping Pubic Hair Is Unattractive or Unhygienic
Many women have been taught that removing all pubic hair is a sign of good hygiene. Because of this, they feel insecure and self-conscious about leaving any hair down there.
Even women who don’t love the idea of being completely hairless often keep shaving. Some continue to shave despite struggling with ingrown hairs and irritation. They either rush to waxing appointments or constantly restock on razors.
There’s nothing wrong with shaving, but don’t do it if it doesn’t work for you. Listen to your body. If shaving causes discomfort, it’s okay to stop.
There’s no rulebook for pubic hair care. Don’t let advertisements, media, or images in adult content make you feel like you’re not beautiful just as you are. Keeping pubic hair is not unhygienic, gross, or unattractive.
Anyone who says otherwise is either uninformed or trying to sell you something you don’t need.
Why You Should Consider Keeping Your Natural Pubic Hair
Pubic hair plays a vital role in your vaginal health. It helps trap dust, dirt, and bacteria, preventing them from entering your vagina. Hair follicles also produce sebum, which can stop harmful bacteria from reproducing.
Additionally, pubic hair reduces friction during sexual activity, helping to protect the delicate skin around your vulva.
But this doesn’t mean you have to go all-natural. Whether or not you shave is entirely up to you. We just want you to make that decision for yourself, not because of outside pressure.
Should Your Partner's Preferences Matter?
It’s common to feel self-conscious about what your partner thinks, and many women choose the option they think their partner prefers.
What do partners actually want? A 2021 study by YouGov found that 52% of male partners preferred trimmed pubic hair, while 32% liked the natural look.
But should your partner’s preference influence your decision? There’s one simple rule: if it makes you uncomfortable, don’t do it.
Which Pubic Choice Is Right for You?
This isn’t about whether you should have hair or not. The right pubic choice is personal. What do you prefer? You might need to try both options to see what works best for you.
If you choose to keep your hair, that’s perfectly fine. It’s not unhygienic, as long as you keep it clean and dry.
Whatever you decide, make sure your grooming routine doesn’t cause harm. Any option that causes pain, irritation, or discomfort isn’t right for you.
Shaving: How to Do It Right
Shaving is a common, inexpensive method of pubic hair removal. But it requires care, as the pubic area is sensitive. Here are a few tips to help you avoid cuts, ingrown hairs, or infections:
How to Achieve a Smooth Shave
- Choose a good razor: Opt for a razor with multiple blades and a solid build. Dull blades can lead to irritation and cuts. Razors with moisture strips provide extra lubrication.
- Get a trim: If your hair is long, start with a trim to make shaving easier and less irritating.
- Shower and exfoliate: A warm shower softens hair and opens pores. Exfoliating removes dead skin cells, allowing the razor to glide more smoothly.
- Use shaving cream: Shaving cream moisturizes and lubricates the skin, reducing the risk of cuts and irritation. Look for ingredients like shea butter or coconut oil.
- Shave in the right direction: Shaving with the grain prevents irritation and ingrown hairs. If you want a closer shave, go against the grain, but be mindful of potential irritation.
After shaving, rinse with cool water and apply a gentle moisturizer to close the pores and soothe the skin.
Not Into Shaving? Other Pubic Choices
If shaving isn’t for you, here are other options to consider:
Keeping It Natural
Leaving your pubic hair natural can be just as sexy as removing it. Many women and men prefer this option. If you go natural, regular trimming will keep things neat and clean.
Waxing
Waxing removes hair at the root, leaving you with smooth skin. It can be painful, but the results last longer than shaving. You can choose between Brazilian waxing (removing almost all hair) or bikini waxing (focusing on the bikini line).
After waxing, avoid hot showers and strenuous activities for a few days. Your esthetician will provide aftercare instructions to help reduce irritation.
Laser Therapy
Laser hair removal uses light energy to target hair follicles and stop hair growth. Multiple sessions are often needed, but the results can be long-lasting. This option is great for those seeking more permanent hair removal.
Electrolysis
Electrolysis is another permanent hair removal option. It uses radio frequencies to destroy hair follicles, preventing new hair from growing. Like laser therapy, multiple sessions may be required for optimal results.
Tips for Keeping It Clean Down There
Regardless of your grooming choice, it’s essential to maintain good vulva and vaginal health. Here are a few tips:
- Wash with warm water and mild soap (or just water), and pat dry with a clean towel.
- Avoid feminine washes or sprays; the vagina is self-cleaning.
- Wear breathable cotton underwear, and keep it clean and dry.
- Take regular baths—at least twice daily.
- Wipe from front to back after using the toilet to avoid spreading bacteria.
- Change out of sweaty or wet clothes as soon as possible.
- Consult a doctor if you experience itching, unusual discharge, pain, or odor.
